what do you mean "make it look like mandrake or suse"
all kde on RH is the same as KDE on mdk etc, depends on your configurations.
My suggestion:
head over to www.kdelook.org
and get some new window decos and styles. i recommend Knifty and Plastik, you can also get my xmms skin from there which will complement it.
the go to www.linuxcult.org, register (if not already) and download everaldo's crystal icon set v9.0.
Now you can make your desktop pretty
heres what my desktop looks like.
[img]http://www.theogr.net/discussion/attachment.php?s=&postid=145221[/img]