Ok, I could fix that prob using
kdenetwork-420881
from daily kde snapshot
ftp://ftp.kde.org/pub/kde/unstable/snapshots/
kopete shows himself now as 0.10.9
I needed to delete
~/.kde/share/apps/kopete/contactlist.xml
because it doubled all my contacts after first start.
I still got some other probs with crashs while I cut my Internet connection or when I click kopete icon on taskbar but Iam able to use ICQ again almost stable.
cu
Rudi